The Bougie Dating Coach Podcast

EP 16:What I Told God I Want in a Man—and How That Changed Everything

Episode Summary

Girl, here’s the truth: God is specific. So why are we still being vague when it comes to what we desire in a man? In this episode, I’m inviting you into the exact conversation I had with God about my desires—no filters, no shame. From the pressures of the invisible clock to the temptation to "settle just a little," we’re talking about it all. We’ll walk through: Why vague prayers lead to vague results The Exodus blueprint that inspired The List What it looks like to cancel out confusion and only entertain clarity How to reject “I’m just trying to see” energy—because you’re not a maybe And the real reason specificity builds belief Plus, I’ll share 3 tangible ways I’m showing up in dating now that I’ve gotten clear—with myself, with God, and with potential partners. 🛠️ Resources Mentioned: 📝 The List E-Book: Your guided tool to name your dating desires with clarity & boldness 💬 Join the Bold Dating Community: [Insert link] 🎧 Share this with a friend who’s tired of dating in limbo

Episode Notes

Sis, here’s the truth: God is specific. So why are we still being vague when it comes to what we desire in a man?

In this episode, I’m inviting you into the exact conversation I had with God about my desires—no filters, no shame. From the pressures of the invisible clock to the temptation to "settle just a little," we’re talking about it all.

We’ll walk through:

Why vague prayers lead to vague results

The Exodus blueprint that inspired The List

What it looks like to cancel out confusion and only entertain clarity

How to reject “I’m just trying to see” energy—because you’re not a maybe

And the real reason specificity builds belief

Plus, I’ll share 3 tangible ways I’m showing up in dating now that I’ve gotten clear—with myself, with God, and with potential partners.

🛠️ Resources Mentioned:

📝 The List E-Book: Your guided tool to name your dating desires with clarity & boldness (https://www.colormetherapyllc.com/shop)

💬 Join the Bold Dating Community: [Insert link]

🎧 Share this with a friend who’s tired of dating in limbo