The Bougie Dating Coach Podcast

EP 13: Hey God, it's me Again..."I'm STILL single."

Episode Notes

Tired of hearing “Just wait—God will bring him when you least expect it”? Sis, let’s be real: that phrase is starting to sound more like a band-aid than a breakthrough. In today’s episode, I’m unpacking why your wait on God might feel frustrating and how to actually shift into a season of magnetic, aligned action—without losing hope.

This isn’t about striving, performing, or being busy for the sake of it. It’s about stepping into alignment with who God has called you to be—so what you’re waiting for is drawn to you naturally, not stressfully.

🔑 What You’ll Learn:

What waiting on God is—and what it isn’t

How spiritualized procrastination may be keeping you stuck

Why inner posture matters more than passive positioning

A powerful story of what happened when I aligned with my authentic self

How to prepare for love while still living fully

Practical ways to fill your calendar with aligned, magnetic moments

A presence practice you can use this week to move from frustration to flow

🧠 Journal Prompts to Reflect On:

What am I doing in my life right now that reflects trust in God’s timing?

Have I unintentionally used “waiting on God” as a spiritual excuse to hide?

What are five things I love doing that bring me joy outside of dating?

How can I start showing up in those spaces more often?

Am I aligned with the version of me my future partner is praying for?

✨ Mini Challenge:

Create your magnetic moment calendar.
List your top 5 interests. Find events, classes, or experiences aligned with them. Add at least one to your calendar this week. Then go—and be fully present.

📌 Mentioned in This Episode:

Elegance Unleashed Coaching – 1:1 support to align with the woman who attracts what she desires

Real-life story: How I met a guy when I wasn’t looking—but was in full alignment

IG Poll results: What women really think about waiting on God

📲 Stay Connected:

Let’s keep the conversation going:
→ IG: @staceybessard
→ DM me “WAITING” if this episode hit home and you’re ready for your magnetic shift.

🎧 Listen Now:

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