Sis, are you confusing friendliness with flirtation? If you’ve ever left a conversation wishing you’d shown your interest instead of freezing up—this episode is for you. In this juicy and practical lesson, I’m teaching you how to flirt like the bold, bougie, and God-aligned woman you are. We’re talking soft eyes, gentle smiles, and the flirty finesse that invites the right kind of masculine attention. Let’s make sure you're not sending friend vibes when your heart is ready for something more. ✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why you might be coming off more “church professional” than magnetic and flirty My Signature Flirt Combo: soft eyes, a gentle smile, a caught-off-guard compliment, and a light touch How to create flirtatious moments that feel natural, not forced The exact phrases to use that open the door without chasing The difference between being inviting vs. being too guarded Why you must align with your most authentic self to attract aligned connections 💡 Power Takeaways Flirting is not performance, it’s energy: When you soften your body, energy, and tone—you create space for a man to pursue. Soft eyes are your secret weapon: Learn to drop the forehead tension and let your feminine energy lead. Compliments are conversation starters: Use unexpected compliments to open the door—without losing your mystery. Confidence is magnetic: You don’t have to prove anything. Your presence is the message.
Sis, are you confusing friendliness with flirtation? If you’ve ever left a conversation wishing you’d shown your interest instead of freezing up—this episode is for you. In this juicy and practical lesson, I’m teaching you how to flirt like the bold, bougie, and God-aligned woman you are. We’re talking soft eyes, gentle smiles, and the flirty finesse that invites the right kind of masculine attention.
Let’s make sure you're not sending friend vibes when your heart is ready for something more.
✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode
Why you might be coming off more “church professional” than magnetic and flirty
My Signature Flirt Combo: soft eyes, a gentle smile, a caught-off-guard compliment, and a light touch
How to create flirtatious moments that feel natural, not forced
The exact phrases to use that open the door without chasing
The difference between being inviting vs. being too guarded
Why you must align with your most authentic self to attract aligned connections
💡 Power Takeaways
Flirting is not performance, it’s energy: When you soften your body, energy, and tone—you create space for a man to pursue.
Soft eyes are your secret weapon: Learn to drop the forehead tension and let your feminine energy lead.
Compliments are conversation starters: Use unexpected compliments to open the door—without losing your mystery.
Confidence is magnetic: You don’t have to prove anything. Your presence is the message.
💅🏽 Bougie Bonus Tip
“Flirting isn’t about doing more—it’s about doing less with more intention.”
Inside Elegance Unleashed, I teach my clients how to embody softness, boldness, and alignment in their dating lives. We practice this on live calls until it becomes second nature. Want in? [staceybessard.com]
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