The Bougie Dating Coach Podcast

Dating Boldly in Your 30s:Embracing Confidence and Clarity

Episode Summary

In this episode of The Bougie Dating Coach, Stacey Bessard delves into dating in your 30s, focusing on the importance of confidence, clarity, and faith. She shares personal stories and insights to inspire single Christian women to approach dating boldly, valuing alignment and authenticity over settling. Stacey emphasizes that clarity attracts the right people, and that each dating experience, even if it doesn’t lead to a relationship, is a chance for growth. She also highlights how faith can guide and empower you in your dating life, reminding listeners to trust in God’s timing and His plan for their love journey.

Episode Notes

Episode Summary

In this episode of The Bougie Dating Coach, Stacey Bessard explores what it means to date boldly and confidently in your 30s. She shares personal stories, practical advice, and faith-based insights to help single Christian women navigate dating with clarity and intention. This episode covers how to own your journey, the power of clarity, and how faith can be a guiding force in dating decisions. If you’re ready to embrace this phase with a strong sense of self and purpose, tune in and take your dating life to the next level!

Key Takeaways

• Confidence as a Superpower: Walk into dates knowing your worth. Confidence doesn’t mean arrogance; it’s about understanding your value and aligning with people who appreciate it.
• Clarity Attracts Alignment: Be clear about what you want in a relationship. Communicating your values and boundaries up front can save time and help you find the right match.
• Embrace the Process: Remember, dating is a journey. Each date offers a chance to learn more about yourself and refine your relationship goals.
• Faith and Boldness: Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us to trust in God’s plan. Relying on faith and praying for discernment can help you make empowered, spiritually aligned decisions.

Listener Question

“How do I stay motivated to keep dating when I feel like I’m not meeting anyone who aligns with my values?”
Stacey’s Advice: Take breaks when you need them, but stay open. Every experience is part of the journey, and God’s timing is always perfect.

Episode Highlights

• [2:00] - Stacey’s personal story about learning clarity and alignment on a date in her 30s.
• [8:15] - Tips on dating boldly: confidence, clarity, and embracing the journey.
• [14:30] - How faith shapes our dating approach as Christian women.
• [18:00] - Listener question about staying motivated in dating and Stacey’s response.

Quotes

• “Dating boldly is about standing in your truth and knowing your worth.”
• “Clarity attracts clarity. Be clear about your values and boundaries.”
• “Trust that God’s timing is perfect, and He’s guiding you to the right person at the right time.”

Resources Mentioned

• Bible Verse: Proverbs 3:5-6 – Trusting in God’s guidance and timing.
• Follow Stacey on Instagram: @CoachStaceyB for more dating tips and inspiration.

Next Episode

Tune in next week as Stacey dives into “Red Flags and Green Lights: How to Spot the Difference in Dating.” You’ll learn to spot the signs that show whether someone is aligned or not—an episode you won’t want to miss!

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